Sunday, May 3, 2009 Y

Before I go off to bed, I thought I might like to blog. No point keep things and then wake up with a bad moood later on yea?.

Went blog hopping just now and found rather shocking things. Things like... the most steady couples actually broke off, how some people's life changed etc.

Is it due to the differences in genes which resulted in all guys prompted to make the same mistakes? When they already have the prettiest+cleverest+richest+good temper+etcetcetc gf, why is that they will still cheat behind their partners' back? Reasons given are only excuses to cover up for the wrong doings. When you claimed how much you love each other, there is NO reason for you to cheat beside you partner's back. Unless that isn't love. As simple as that.

But how come, the mistakes will still happen between married couples? Are marriage vows taken for nothing? I wonder.

Below is what i got from blog hopping, which left me thinking how true is it.

the top five basic needs of the female in marriage are:

1 - affection
2 - communication
3 - openness/honesty
4 - financial support
5 - family commitment

the male's top five basic needs are:

1 - sexual fulfillment
2 - recreational companionship
3 - an attractive wife
4 - domestic support
5 - admiration




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Sometimes, I can't help but wonder is it girls' memories are too goood, or just guys' memories are too bad. *Jelly will second me*

While girls actually remembers so many things, how could guys forget? For me, I do not think that guys have the power to do selective memories, but they just simply don't want to admit that they rememberPERIOD

I actually thought that I did a damn smart thing until today, ok, yesterday, until I went to check my folder. Not long ago, my lappy was sent to reformat, and hence all the things in the C drive are gone. BUT, it was only till today that I realised, the shortcut chatlog folder in D drive which I created from the mother folder in C drive is actually still linked to the mother folder in C drive.

While my intention was to copy the whole folder, so that next time I'm able to keep those wonderful chats with bf and friends, and??? Now it's gone. There's a chinese saying which goes "to be fooled by one's cleverness". Now I experienced. And, it seriously makes me wonder if I'm being hinted.

While I remembered some key events, am I being hinted to forget through the deletion of the folders?

Memories of how me and bf started talking, confess our feelings for each other, him thinking that trying to hold my hand is a sin, first called each other 'dear', sweet-talked and crapped non-stop, arguments, sorting out problems, hearing each other out, complained, etcetcetc...

YET the process of a few buttons + a few hours of waiting, *POOF* gone, forever.



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Laoshi said, guys will only realised their wrong and regret after losing the precious; while girls will tend to fall too deeply yet when they decided to walked away, they will not look back again.

I don't know what's my rationale of typing all these craps, but I just want to. This is my blog anyway. If anyone finds it offending, well, perhaps, you're guilty of something I said in my blog? Yet, if you don't feel offended, it doesn't mean that you are not guilty about anything, maybe it just meant that you take your love ones lightly. =) Do some reflections. Cherish the ones you love.

High ego doesn't worth any money. When you have done the wrong thing, a simple 'sorry' can do the magic.

While I suddenly feel an affection with the date today, it strikes me that today is the day where me and bf disclosed our love to the class during bbq last year this date.

During the truth-or-dare session in the tent,

Chelsea: do you like jackie?
Jolene: no.
Chelsea: are you sure?
Jolene: ya. *mumbles* because I love him...



"I still love you, like I always do."